Julia Hawkes – one of my Celebrant Role-models
Professionally I am saddened to see websites still referring to gay marriage or even worse same sex marriage – I simply don’t understand why there needs to be differentiation, why is there a need to suggest that marriage is somehow different for different groups of people? My approach to all couples is the same; the care, consideration and kindness shown to couples when I am planning their weddings is the same for every couple I meet. Many couples I meet have complicated family dynamics, sensitivities to be aware of, things they feel passionately about, things they wish to celebrate, challenges they have overcome – these are not unique circumstances! I think that sometimes separate web sections are introduced by well-meaning celebrants who wish to demonstrate their inclusivity but I would encourage them to rethink! Instead review the language and images used, the resources shared with couples, consider all the couples who will be looking at your website