Readings are a cherished part of many ceremonies, a moment where words can uplift, inspire, bring laughter or tears, and connect with emotion.
But there’s more to readings than simply asking someone to step forward and recite a passage. With a bit of creativity and thought, celebrants can transform this element into something memorable and deeply personal.

Here are five creative ways to incorporate readings into your ceremonies whether you’re crafting a wedding, a naming day, a memorial, or any celebration of life.

Readings in Ceremonies that work

1. Readings as Rituals

Why not turn the act of reading into a ritual itself?
Rather than simply having someone stand and read, you could create a short moment of reflection around the reading. For example, a candle could be lit beforehand, inviting stillness.
In a naming ceremony, a reading could be shared while the child is passed gently between family members, symbolising support.
Or at a wedding, a reading about love might be shared right before the vows, almost as a blessing upon what’s about to come.
In this approach, the reading becomes part of the ceremony’s rhythm. A transition, a pause, or a sacred moment.

2. Unusual Sources for Readings

The most impactful readings are often those that surprise people. Don’t feel limited to traditional poems or excerpts from classic literature.
Encourage clients to consider:

• Song lyrics that resonate with them
• Children’s books for naming days or weddings with young guests
• Letters written by family members, past or present
• Cultural proverbs or folklore
• Lines from films or TV shows that hold shared meaning

By choosing material that reflects the personalities of the participants, you’ll create a ceremony that feels far more genuine and grounded.

3. Readings by Multiple Voices

Instead of one person reading a passage, consider breaking a reading into several parts and having multiple people share it.
This can be particularly touching at memorials or blended family ceremonies. For example, three siblings might each read a section of a tribute to a parent.
At a wedding, the couple’s closest friends could take turns reading lines about love or friendship, making it feel communal.
For clients who are shy or don’t want to speak for long, this approach also reduces pressure while still giving them a meaningful role.

4. Interactive Readings

Some celebrants include interactive readings, where guests or the couple join in.
One way to do this is with a call-and-response style; you might read a line, and the group responds with a repeated phrase (e.g. “We honour this journey” or “We bless this love”).
In naming ceremonies, parents can read one line at a time from a shared poem.
At memorials, guests can be invited to say a word or line aloud when prompted.
These moments bring energy, focus and collective emotion, making everyone feel truly part of the ceremony.

5. Framing the Reading with Context

Often, the way a reading is introduced can transform its impact. As a celebrant, you can offer a brief context before the reading – why it was chosen, who it reminds the client of, or what mood it captures.
For example:
“This poem was read at the bride’s grandparents’ wedding, and it speaks to the enduring power of love across generations.”
Or:
“These lyrics were the song played the night they met, and when you hear them, you’ll understand why they chose it today.”
By giving a little context, you allow the guests to connect more deeply with the words that follow.

Tips for Celebrants: Choosing and Delivering Readings

• Offer a curated list: Many clients feel overwhelmed choosing a reading. Keep a short list of favourites (ideally varied in tone and source), to share as inspiration.
• Practice the pacing: Whether you’re reading or guiding someone else, encourage a slow, steady pace with plenty of pauses.
• Use a printed copy: Phones can be risky in ceremonies (battery, brightness, notifications!). A neatly printed version looks professional and is easier to manage under pressure.
• Help with nerves: If someone is reading during the ceremony, offer a quiet practice beforehand or even stand nearby for reassurance.

Why Readings Matter

In the end, readings bring a voice to the intangible, to love, memory, joy, grief, and hope.
They can comfort, entertain, surprise, or simply speak what the heart wants to say. For celebrants, they are a powerful tool, not just filler, but a foundation.
By approaching readings with creativity, care, and curiosity, you can create ceremony moments that truly stay with people.